One of the most difficult, yet very important lessons we can teach our students is how to handle adversity. All too often kids learn to quit when they are down and when something doesn’t work the first time, that it won’t in the future. Is this the message we want to send? That one try at something is enough? That when you feel like quitting it is acceptable to do so?
I believe that sometimes we miss the message that the quote speaks to above. That when we cannot change the situation, we must adapt ourselves and find the path to success no matter the obstacle. I am not arguing that we lose ourselves, morals, values or judgement along the way. But our students need to know that they can manage varied situations. We do not always have control over our situation, but we control our response. We can find success in a variety of ways, and sometimes it takes quite a few tries to realize our goals. We can take a time when things are not ideal, and persevere to achieve rather than make excuses for why things did not go as planned.
This quote also speaks to the fact that it is a challenge to change ourselves…to adapt. This is no easy feat, and students need support to figure out what changes need to be made. We as lead learners must model how to handle adversity to guide and inspire our students to try it for themselves.
Challenging adversity and adapting ourselves to find success pushes our boundaries as people. It is an exhausting experience, but builds strength and confidence. I believe that once our students rise to a challenge presented and triumph, they realize that the only person standing in the way of their success is the one that looks back at them in the mirror.
As the year comes to a close I want to take a moment and reflect. The quote above is one of my absolute favorites. Too many of our students have been given one of these labels during their school careers and show up to my high school impacted from it in a negative way. We have misfits, rebels, troublemakers, round pegs, square pegs, and rule breakers…and we need them all. I love having this wide variety cross the threshold into my classroom. But these labels can be dropped at the door for one that suits all of us in different ways every day. We are learners.
All of our students need relationships and connection. They require a sense of belonging at our schools and in our classrooms. We need to appreciate the varying lenses with which they view the world. Although we may never fully understand every situation, simply trying to learn more will create a meaningful bond and show our students they are valued. It is modeling this caring, compassionate behavior that will guide our diverse learners to form positive relationships themselves rather than negative ones. Care and compassion are lacking in our world, and it’s time to change this.
As I have said before, I don’t want to recreate the status quo with my students. I want them to push the envelope and go beyond barriers set before them. This generation will lead us forward into uncharted territory, and they have the genius, creativity, and intellect to make this world amazing. We need people to create positive change in our world, and to do that the next generation must know how to take a risk. They must understand that they may fail. They must recognize that at the moment of failure, it is their reaction that determines their future. At the moment of failure, it is time to learn, grow, and be relentless in the pursuit of success.
So this is my salute to ALL the learners that I encounter. Here’s to each of you, as we move to the new year. The world demands divergent thinkers and personalities. Show compassion and accept each other for who we are in order to move forward together. Consider the wide-ranging ideas, even ones that may seem crazy, and let’s push forward to change the world.
This week in my classes we took a moment… moment to relax a bit, a moment to catch our breath, a moment to build community, a moment to move outside our normal classroom activity.
Day of the dead is a Mexican holiday devoted to honoring those that have come before us and left this world. It is celebrated on November 1st and 2nd, very close to Halloween. We took this week to learn about the holiday (and how it is different than Halloween), work on cultural projects, and do a little bit of celebrating.
The project my students completed is based on the work of Mexican print maker José Guadalupe Posada. He depicted skeletons going about their daily lives as if they were living. Death is not something to be feared in Mexican culture, and this is one way to show the inevitable link between life and death. My students were charged to make a skeleton themselves, depicting it as a living person, or a character we see as alive. They chose who they wanted and let their creativity shine. They captured the idea that Day of the dead teaches us all…life and death are hand in hand…each a part of the other.
Here are a few examples of their work:
The other side to this week was the fact that we did something different than the norm. My students loved the opportunity to relax a bit, think creatively, and produce. Many times we get so busy with the day to day work of Spanish class that creative thinking can get pushed to the back burner. The quality of their work abounded when given the time and space to work autonomously.
At the end of the week as we were finishing up projects and final products were arriving to class, there was an overwhelming sense of pride and accomplishment in my students. They were excited about their own work and the work of their peers. They asked to see other projects and celebrated a job well done.
Building a sense of community is of paramount importance in the classroom, and last week played an enormous role in the continuous construction that goes on in my environment. We can never stop building culture. Everyone benefits from a moment to breathe. I have a feeling that the intrinsic motivation levels for my students got recharged this past week, and I can’t wait to see what they produce in the coming days.
In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. -Bill Cosby
Inherently kids want to be successful. They don’t show up to school thinking about how wonderful it will be to fail at school. No matter how tough they are on the outside, they all show up wanting to be themselves, grow, and achieve.
This has been very apparent at school in the past few days. My students are getting to a milestone in Spanish class – the first round of summative assessments. This week, they will show me what they can do in the four skills of listening, speaking, reading, and writing. They have been working for weeks, and it is show time. There are nerves, excitement, and a lot of apprehension. For many of my students, this is their first time taking an summative assessment in Spanish, and for all of my kids this is their first time taking one from me. Little do they know just how prepared they are. We have been working very diligently. The students have been practicing all four skills, and they have been given tools to practice additionally at home. Yet any time you take a risk and try something new, there is a possibility of failure.
I must be realistic. Even though I feel that these kids are well prepared to assess, some will fail. Some will fall below the line of proficiency. Some will do it out of nerves (the wonderful test brain freeze, anyone?), some will not have done enough practice. But standards based learning and grading will save the day. It will swoop in to help these students find their way to proficiency. More practice will take place, formative feedback will be given, and they will reassess. Why? Because it is important that they learn it, not when they learn it.
Some of my students are arriving at the point of retakes and are finding success. The smiles that light up their faces when they know they improved is one of my favorite parts of teaching. They appreciate a second chance, and are ready to move on and learn more language. Success breeds more success, and that is what I want to spread in my classroom.
Be a champion for your students. Demand that they learn, show them how to get up after they fall down, and lead them to success. We will create a class of students who are excited about learning, and who know how to seek and find knowledge.
Don’t get me wrong, I have had the best start to a school year since the beginning of my teaching career 14 years ago. I have been forming relationships and building trust with my students. They are developing their skills and making me very proud to be their teacher. I am taking risks, finding successes, and learning from failures.
But there is that little nagging voice in the back of my head as I go home each day…Have I done the best I could for them? Is there something I could have done differently? Is my environment the most conducive for learning? Am I giving them enough feedback? Are my assessments truly measuring my students’ achievement?
I know deep down that I work very diligently to provide my students the best learning experiences possible. I am always reading, learning, and practicing to grow and improve my craft of teaching. At times, the nagging voice can eat away at my confidence a bit, and discourage risk taking. I try to ignore this, and I am getting better at it. There are other things that feed the nagging voice – colleagues, old systems, politicians, lack of time…the list goes on. It is difficult to push the envelope when most everything around you is pushing back to maintain the status quo. We cannot sacrifice what is best for our students because it makes our lives easier. We cannot lose confidence because we forge new paths.
There are positives to this voice. It keeps me centered and grounded in the fact that I cannot stagnate. I cannot stop. I must keep changing, innovating, and creating. If I slow down, my students stop. I need to make sure that I listen to the voice to a certain extent – always challenging myself to be better, learn something new, create a better experience. It keeps me on a journey rather than at a destination.
Here’s to being a positive deviant for change. Break away from the mold to do what is right for kids. Learn from your experiences, colleagues, and environment. Grow and take risks. Dare to be the teacher you never had in school. That is what my nagging voice has challenged me to do this year.
I said the magic words today in class…the ones that make students’ faces light up and cause smiles to emerge. “Let’s go outside!”
It was a beautiful day today, temperatures in the 70s and partly cloudy. Why keep these kids inside all day wishing they could just get a moment or two outside? It is not that the activity we were doing couldn’t be done inside – of course it could. But the beauty lies within this question…could we go outside for that? Could we take advantage of the nice weather before yet another harsh Chicago winter bears down on us? One of my goals for this year is to move my kids outside the walls of our classroom more often. We can not only go outside, but use the other spaces within the school to provide a change of pace and setting.
Too many of our students go through the monotonous motions of their day – every day. A simple act like moving our class to a different locale will make today memorable. It takes an activity that might be easily forgotten and turns it into a shared experience of something different and fun.
Here they are outside!
As I was looking for inspiration for my next blog post, I reflected on several conversations I have had with colleagues at work as well as with members of my PLN on twitter. I realized I had been asked the same question several times in the past week – What do you do when students won’t do their work?
With a standards based, differentiated classroom, my students don’t always do the same work. All I care about is that my students an interpret and produce language at the end of the day. It doesn’t matter how they get there, just that they are always growing, learning, and improving.
Ok, so back to the question…what do I do in my classroom when students won’t do their work? There are so many things to consider, but here are a few…
I had my yearly curriculum night this week, an evening that some teachers dread. Even though it makes for a long day (and night), I enjoy the experience of meeting the parents, letting them see a bit into their child’s world, and hopefully getting them on board with what I do in my classroom.
My biggest challenge with this night – I only get 10 minutes with each class to explain my grading system, how to get extra help, my curriculum, my expectations, contact information, etc. Any of these could take up all 10 of those minutes, but I must carefully divide my time, try not to overwhelm my parents, and maintain my enthusiasm for learning and their children.
So, here is what I did this year. I welcomed my parents and thanked them for taking the time to come and learn about my class. I let them know various ways to get in touch, and included my blog address and twitter handle. I set out my expectations, which are:
At this point, I could see parents nodding along with me, and looking like they were agreeing with what I had to say. So far, so good! After that I needed to get into my differentiated methodology and standards based grading system, but I had to tell them one more thing first. I said, “You need to understand that your children and their learning is the most important thing to me.” At the high school level we can get very bogged down with curriculum guides, standardized testing, and content standards. I knew that it was imperative for me to communicate that learning is the focus of my room, relationships are key, and once those are in place the rest will follow.
I spent the rest of my time explaining how I differentiate for all learners, how standards based grading works and makes grades meaningful, how redos and retakes impact student success and learning, and how we would infuse technology in the classroom.
By the end of the night, there were many thank yous and smiles as they went on to their other classes, but my favorite comment of the night from one parent was “Thank you for all your enthusiasm, my daughter loves your class.”
Bring your enthusiasm and love of learning to your class each day, and extend it to your parents!
I enjoyed sharing the concept of genius hour so much with my students this week, that I actually had a little bit of a let down the day after. It was like the day after Christmas, when there is a great level of satisfaction along with that little sadness that the anticipation is over.
We watched Ashton Kutcher’s acceptance speech at the 2013 teen choice awards, and talked about the fact that they were all geniuses. There were a few chuckles, but by the end of the period I had changed some opinions. Then I put up a slide with the following question:
What if…I let you learn about whatever you wanted?
There was a hush in the room, and then I started to hear responses such as:
Then I let them know that I would. Genius hour would be every Monday and they would get to pursue a topic that they cared about, that they were passionate about, that was important to them. I told them that they mattered, and they mattered now. Too many times we tell adolescents that they will matter one day – when they are adults, or when they have made something of themselves. I disagree with that sentiment, these kids can matter now, they do matter now, and we are going to do something about it.
We moved into brainstorming next, and the topics that came up were wonderfully varied. The lists included sports, music, dance, theater, bullying, the environment, famine, the media, technology, people who are treated unfairly, and on and on. Some poured out their ideas and others sat very contemplatively. I could tell they had some ideas stirring, but were not ready to share them yet.
Many of my kids told me that it was hard to think of what they would like to learn more about or investigate because they had never been asked before. They are used to coming to school, being told what they need to know and going back home. What we were starting was so different, so huge, it was difficult for them to wrap their brains around.
We finished the day with some discussion surrounding potential topics. They talked to each other to see about collaborative groups, share some of their passion, and see how they might be able to move forward together. I told them to let their ideas simmer for the week, not to make any decisions right away. A pep talk from Kid President left us reminded to be awesome and that we are all on the same team.
Next week, we move into the computer lab to start researching potential topics and see what is out there. This is one reason I didn’t want them to make many decisions on day 1. They need to see how they can learn about their topic in Spanish, and then transition to work on pitching their project.
Until next week, recognize your inner genius!